First, do a self
evaluation. The most important thing to do is to think “what
kind of roommate will I be?” Set aside some time to sit down
with some paper and a pencil. Who are you? What will
your roommate think of you? What are your expectations?
·
The good stuff. List all the good
things/characteristics you can bring to this relationship.
What do you offer a roommate? Include personal
qualities, background, strengths, and personal belongings you are
willing to share.
·
The hard stuff. You have faults?! Of
course you do…or at least your roommate may think so. This
list won’t make you a bad person, but what are some things that may
challenge you when it comes to having a roommate? Sloppy,
music choices, moody. No furniture to offer (maybe you live a
far distance?), no car, etc.
Second, Make a
survival guide. What do you need to survive? 8 hours of
sleep each night, No visitors after hours? Time alone in your
room? A friend for a roommate?
Third,
look at your lists. What are you willing to compromise on?
What can you NOT live without? What are your expectations?
Use the following communication tips to make talking with your
roommate that much easier.
